Friends accept into active membership those whose declarations and ways of life manifest such unity with Friends' views and practices that they may be expected to enter fully into religious fellowship with the meeting. Part of the essential genius of the Society is the experience of growth through common worship and the loving acceptance of an individual by the group. It is an open fellowship that recognizes that of God in everyone.
Those inclined to join us should review carefully this entire book of Faith and Practice and other Friends' literature so as to gain an understanding of the basis of the Quaker faith, mode of worship, and manner of transacting business. They should attend meetings for worship and for business for a sufficient period of time to become convinced that membership will nourish and enrich their continuing growth in the life of the Spirit. They should be aware that this growth may entail changes in every aspect of their lives. Membership in a monthly meeting includes membership in the quarterly or equivalent meeting, the New York Yearly Meeting, Friends United Meeting, and Friends General Conference. Prospective applicants for membership should also have knowledge of the Wider Quaker Fellowship, the Friends World Committee for Consultation, the American Friends Service Committee, and the Friends Committee on National Legislation. They should discuss any questions or doubts with members of the meeting, particularly overseers or members of ministry and counsel.
Membership is a privilege and entails a corresponding responsibility. Members should be prepared to give bountifully of their resources of time and money. The shared ministry of the Society and the importance of the proper functioning of committees and meetings demand participation and cooperation. Membership is a commitment to enter wholeheartedly into the spiritual and corporate activities of the Society and willingly to assume responsibility for both service and support as the way opens.
Only monthly and executive meetings have the power to admit